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Leadership Toolkit | Leading Well from the Start
The first months in a leadership role quietly set expectations that can last for years. This toolkit supports leaders in approaching early transitions with intention, helping them listen well, align thoughtfully, and establish leadership presence without rushing or burnout.
alexandrapflaumer
Jan 124 min read


When Habits Stop Feeling Like Punishment and Start Feeling Like Care
After two years of consistent weekly movement, I have learned that habits stick more easily when they are built on care rather than pressure. This piece reflects on how intention setting, realistic expectations, and self compassion can turn habit building into an act of self care instead of self correction.
alexandrapflaumer
Jan 73 min read


Embracing Growth Amidst Grief: Resources to Guide You in the Year Ahead
This worksheet helps you to plan compassionately for loss-related dates ahead.
alexandrapflaumer
Jan 23 min read


2026 New Year, New Intentions Workbook
Each year, I see so many messages of "New Year, New You." While this may be motivating for some, I see it overwhelm others. That's a lot of pressure- to reinvent your whole self. And is it really what is best for you? What parts of you already exist that you want to hold near to you from one year as the foundation for your growth in the next? Name it. Celebrate it. Create realistic goals that support your continued evolution. This workbook is an invitation to slow down
alexandrapflaumer
Jan 21 min read


When the Waters Rise: Collective Grief in the Wake of the Texas Floods
In a flood’s aftermath, grief is as communal as rain, but how each person processes it varies. At Camp Mystic, families gathered on riverbanks, searching the mud for a daughter’s shoe or a token of a life unfulfilled. Others retreated into silence, overwhelmed by disbelief or exhaustion, feeling frozen. Some channeled pain into action as they organized relief drives, created Facebook groups to reunite lost items, or helping with the Lost Stuffy Project...others are angry.
alexandrapflaumer
Jul 13, 20254 min read


A Mother's Day Conversation With the Dead Mom's Club
Three moms. Three daughters. One shared loss. We didn’t choose the Dead Mom’s Club—but in it, we’ve found sisterhood, healing, and a way to honor our mothers each Mother’s Day. This is our story of grief, friendship, and holding space for both joy and ache.
alexandrapflaumer
May 8, 20254 min read
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